Phyllis Francene

How do You Help a Client who Has recently Suffered from the Effects of Physical and Mental Domestic Violence?

This topic is very dear to my heart on a personal note.  I sustained mental and physical abuse at the hands of my husband.  He had a very supportive family whereas I had a distant family. 

I made a lot of incorrect decisions because of the trauma I had sustained prior to meeting him.  Because of that and the natural instinct to protect myself from harm I chose to seek what I thought was love but was actually not be alone and feeling protected.  But I had poor judgement based on how I was treated at home and therefore being treated badly was normal to me.  

Knowing and understanding your client’s plight but not becoming sympathetic and remaining objective is critical in assisting them to achieve an optimum state of mental health and physical health.

I did go for counseling at a domestic violence center.  It assisted me with being able to express myself and the traumas I had endured both with my husband and in past relationships prior to the marriage.

This is what I discovered on my spiritual path:  The life activation jump started me and I saw the world around me differently.  I was motivated and then with an emotional cord release and removal of negative energies prayer I was able to go beyond my comfort zone .  I heard the word magick mentioned in an introduction to the study of the Universal Kabbalah and did not overeact and become opinionated and close minded.  I embrace the Tree of Life and decided to study and be a part of the Universal Kabbalah community.  Despite the stresses and anxieties from my job and litigation i was able to journey up the tree for next 9 months.  I successfully completed that journey despite not fully embracing it and studying it.  I would have achieved more had a judiciously studied the Kabbalah as I journeyed up the Tree of Life.

During this time I received other healings such as the King Solomon Healing Modalities and then 

an initiate in the lineage of King Solomon .  Later on I became a life activation practitioner and healer and teacher of metaphysics.  All of this was achieved because I never gave up and just kept on continuing on the spiritual path.

I could feel it in my heart that this is the correct path for me take.

So from my own personal experience of being a person who survived domestic violence;  I can confidently develop a package for these women and men to enable them to go beyond their comfort zone and move forward in their lives and get to know themselves.  When we know ourselves we can achieve anything  and we need to respect our environment , the air, and plants and animals  and treat them with reverence.

When you goand  do this for yourself ,  your self confidence soars ,  you are no longer the victim;  you are the conqueror of your negative ego and of memories and things that no longer serve.  You can find and have a positive understanding of what life is about.  You learn  how to achieve what you need and create the kingdom you want for yourself your family and those around you.

My wish is that everyone recognizes their regalness,  joy, abundance and understand that the Hierarchy of Light and the ONE will never leave but will stand beside you and protect you on your spiritual quest.

I can be reached at phyllis@centerforhealingandempowerment.com

May the heavens watch over you and may serve and live your life in the light always.

Blog 28 Why is it so Difficult to Have Free Will and To Be Responsible for Our Lives

We need to take responsibility for our lives and the choices we make.  But what happens when our world appears to be turned inside and out.   When we’re out of our comfort zone when we have changed jobs and perhaps chosen one that puts us out of our comfort zone.   We worked for years in a profession run by a corporation or an institution and decide to work for ourselves.  This can be very difficult as now we have to set and organize our days.  We are just doing the same thing from day to day.  We have to set our schedule and determine how to become known and successful.  We are running our lives and cannot be affected by temptation .  

In these circumstances we need to perhaps learn new skills and take courses that will enhance our skills as an entrepreneur or we may need to hire a life coach.  It is always best to be accountable not to ourselves but to another person who will lift us up when we’re down and will offer realistic advice on how to achieve the goals we want to accomplish.

We need to choose wisely and develop strategies that will enhance the business and assist us with our goals.

Therefore establish a set schedule and a regimen that will assist  us in staying focused with  our work and business.  Then we can more easily manage and attain our goals.

Blog 27 What Is Important About Initiation?

Initiation is necessary as we are physical beings having a spirit and we are learning to navigate our lives as eternal spiritual beings as having a physical experience.  Hence as physical beings we require physical initiation.  This is done in all shamanic , religious and groups clubs, sororities and fraternities .
In all these groups and traditions sacred knowledge is handed down through initiation.  It is through initiation that we have the authority to summon, command and dismiss energies.

In the sacred traditions of King Salomon we are given in the first intiation ten times more power.  It is similar to having ten people praying alongside us to have our prayers answered.  

With each initiation the power increases times 10x 10 = 100.  Therefore our level of responsibility is increased and we are responsible to watch our thoughts knowing as Kabbalists that our thoughts affect our world and the community around us.  

So we are responsible for our thoughts and actions and the Kabbalah and also the  teachings which affect everything around us and the world.  So we must always be willing to check our thoughts and think before we speak .  We must be free of dogma and attachments and opinions.  Once we free ourselves of these things things flow easily and we are safe and protected to carry on our mission in life.

 

 

Blog 26 How to Develop Your Psychic Intuition ?

Believe it or not all of us have psychic abilities.  Some people are born with no veils meaning they are not affected prior to birth from having the gift of sight or hearing and may have premonitions of events prior to them occurring .   But what about the average person that does not have the gift of sight or hearing or foreseeing.  The Modern Mystery School actually teaches a course entitled How to Develop Your Spiritual Intuition.  Basically in this course you learn to apply exercises that develop your hearing seeing and ability to trust your inner guidance.  You learn how you  become the captain of your ship and do not rely on soothsayers or psychics for answers to questions about your life and how achieve your goals.

You are provided exercises that actually allow you within about 3 months of time to have increased each ability by 10%.

Did you know that we only utilize about   %  of our conscious mind and about 85% is operated by our subconscious mind?

I cannot provide you with this information in this blog but can recommend that you attend the workshop when it’s available in your area.

I can guide you to observe what is around you and to test your senses .  Look closely at your surroundings  and then try to recall the placement of certain objects or things in that area.  You will be surprised at how quickly you can expand your consciousness and what is all around you.  Your world will expand.

Also playing chess, Sudoko puzzles and the rubric cube assists to expand your consciousness.  As you enhance your skills you may attract more abundance and the people that will enable you to achieve your goals.

Exercise is also a means of increasing our blood supply and also assists us in the transmission of electrical stimulations to the brain and also enables the messages from the neuron to the axons to move with ease and transmit it throughout the brain and into the CNS .  Exercise enhances our cognition, leads to brain rejuvenation and prevents the effects of aging on the brain.  

A study was done of nuns in a convent and they consented to be part of a study on the effects of Alzheimers’ on the brain.  They also agreed to have brain autopsies performed on their corpses post mortem.

One of the sisters was aged 87 and was totally spry and quick witted and spent every evening doing crossword puzzles and playing chess and checkers with the other older sisters.  Upon her death it was noted that even though her brain showed evidence of Alzheimers her activities that enhanced  her brain capan iin capacity and ability to communicate and remember things.

 

Being outdoors and enjoying the sunlight increases melatonin production and also the production of Vit D3 .  With the increased production of melatonin the person is able to sleep soundly , be calmer and maintain a positive attitude .  Vitamin D3 also assists with a positive attitude and also maintains supple bones and as one ages the possibility of broken bones or hip and knee problems is lessened.

 

Reading a book and engaging in activities that peak one’s interest and imagination in life also assists the brain to stay young and free of diseases that diminish the brain function as one ages in life.

 

Therefore barring any accidents or other injuries in life we can maintain good cognitive function and enhance it and achieve a very rewarding and fullfilling life up to and including our elderly years.

Blog 25 What is Agape Love ?

AGAPE LOVE the love Christ has for all.  He loves all of us despite what we may have done in our lives.  The Kabbalah teaches us to aim high and to be truly free of all that does not serve we are not ruled by our emotions or feelings but in a very spiritual way.  You may not like somebody but you can love them.  

You set boundaries and don’t let people walk over you and become a martyr or a victim.  You recognize the divinity within yourselves and everyone around you.  Your outlook on life changes and you move about free of attachments and now move with an ease and grace that you can do anything and can be anything that you want to be.  You also recognize your divine purpose and pursue those things that enable you and assist in your achieving your divine mission on earth.  For some it is to be a healer : you pursue a degree in medicine or in nursing or another aspect of the healthcare profession.  For others you may seek to be limo driver .  You enjoy driving people to their destination and speaking with them.

Flow this love is not the easiest but when it occurs miracles happen.  Things seem to flow in a positive and synchronous manner.  For example you may have lost your job but suddenly you’re in the coffee shop speaking to someone about what happened and suddenly they mention they know of someone or a company looking for someone with your credentials.  You set up an interview the following day and within 5 dys you’re hired .  So as you can see when one door closes another door opens

I have experienced that when  I use agape love in my healing work and I feel the presence of Angels and of Christ as present during this work.

None of this is easy and the more free choice one has the more difficult are the temptations presented before me .  Why is this ?  I believe that it is easy to be negative and to just follow our carnal desires.  To lead a holy and exemplary life is difficult but I have found that utilizing the tools provided to me by the school enables me to perform these tasks and enable to do this work .

 

Blog 24 Do You Believe in Angels ? I Do Believe and I Will Tell You About Angels

From early childhood I have experienced the presence of angels.  Angels can come to us in many forms such as :  protectors warriors, healers, teachers, and mediators between our moving across the veil.

Here are some of my encounters :  I was in a very dangerous situation  I was dying and was 7 yrs old from scarlet fever.  I clearly recall the doctor in Italy stating in Italian she’s going to die .  My mother decided to nurse me at home as I was dying.  My mother nursed me but contacted many relatives in the US to pray for my recovery.  Well what happened was I recall myself out of my body and looking at the bed and hearing a being to the left of me staying you can stay or you can go your choice.  I decided to stay and was given the highest dose of a drug to combat that disease.  Miraculously at no point in time was I hospitalized for the scarlet fever.

I met a very dangerous man through someone who worked in the hospital I worked in.  What occurred was he suffered from PTSD and also was partially psychotic from his experience in Vietnam.  He also later on I found this out suffered from the effect of Agent Orange.  Well one evening he decided to scare me and appeared to be sleeping but suddenly some creature appeared.  I could hear and feel it but could not see it.  It sounded like a hound of hell.  All the kittens and cats he had in the house jumped onto the roof to escape this thing.  I kept on trying to awaken him and he wouldn’t awaken.  The thing came over to my left side and as it was about to touch me I was yelling out the prayer ” The Our Father ”  .  Suddenly I saw a sword coming from the window and shining brightly and as it did the thing seemed to be sucked up by the sword .  The energy of the entire room grew peaceful and the cats and kittens came back inside.

Another time I experienced something strange … a friend wanted me to take their black female dog named Missy  .  Well I could not take her with me as my super did not allow pets in the apartments.  So that night I awoke in a start and saw the dog staring at me with blood red eyes .  Something told me she was dead.  Sure enough the dog wasn’t on my friend’s property and someone stated he had taken the dog for a walk in the woods and heard a gunshot and never saw the dog again.   I believe my angel wanted me to realize the danger I was in and that is why the dog appeared in my dream.

I was driving home one night and had a flat and it was 1 am and I had to be at work at 7am.  I was walking down a bridge and this man kept on stopping trying to pick me up and I said no I’m fine thanks.  II prayed to St Michael the Archangel and asked for help I was in fear for my life.  This man had a strange box alongside him.  Suddenly a state trooper pulled up behind me he was absolutely handsome blond hair blue eyes steely and a glow all around him and he asked me what ‘s going on he called for a tow truck to help me out and asked me and I told him about the strange man and my fear that he was dangerous.  Suddenly the officer called in for back up and drove as fast as could be. Well as I was driving back once the tire was repaired  I saw a few miles up the road what seemed like a group of people looking at something which looked like the that car was empty and the state trooper was no where.  I still believe to this day that was an angel who protected me at my time in need and assisted me in being able to drive home and be at work at 7am.

 

I could continue to cite many other experiences and have learned a lot in the study of the Universal Kabbalah as taught by the Modern Mystery School.   All I can say is that we need to discern good vs evil and discern good angels from others.  Choose to believe or not believe the choice is yours.  I believe that we are eternal spiritual beings living in a physcical body to experience life in this physical dimension and reality.

 

 

What Is a Life Activation and What is the Empower Thyself Program and Initiation ?

 

Well this is the best video that explains about the Life Activation and the Empower Thyself Program.

Teresa Ibis Bullard is has a doctorate in physics and is an alchemy instructor and international with the Modern Mystery School.  Our School is the only school that brings this unbroken sacred lineage of King Salomon and healings to the general public.  The school is not a cult.  You are not forced to quit your job and stay and live on a compound.  You are not forced to quit your religious faith.  You are not told to leave your family and former friends and never engage with them.

 

Why am I stressing this?   Because my own family and acquaintances have continually undermined my practice through their conversations with friends or frankly one of them did this when I had an initiates’ meeting.  Instead of being positive about the healings and teachings they were promoting someone else’s practice.  Strange you may say ?  like they say you can’t choose your family members.  Another family member was literally going blind and refused my offer to send them long distance healing .  There is more to this story but it’s best to move beyond the mundane and negative .

The life activation works and takes about 7 years in total to fully integrate into your body.  However you must be engaged in a positive practice if you do not the life activation can only raise your vibration and frequency to match what you are nurturing and creating in your life.

Initiation gave me the ability to summon, command and dismiss energies that I use to create something good and that does no harm to anyone.  I have tools that protect me so that I can carry on in my spiritual path and achieve and attract that which I need to do the work and complete my mission on earth.

Therefore once I begin to engage and follow this path I learn to avoid that which does not serve me or the common good.  I need to increase my frequency and vibration so that I can reach my fullest potential and fullfill my sacred purpose.  I can do the things that I enjoy and share good times with family and friends. I can live and still continue in my career path and yet follow and practice the teachings and methods as handed down by a Modern Mystery School certified teacher and healer practicing in the lineage of King Salomon  .

Enjoy the video and if you have any questions feel free to reach me and contact me either at phyllis@centerforhealingandempowerment.com  or by phone 732-882-9676.  Solicitors and scammer are not welcomed to contact this center or the founder .

 

Blog 22 Why Do I Belong to the Modern Mystery School And Why Do I Recertify Myself As A Healer Teacher and Guide in The Lineage of King Salomon

Do we not become a member of let’s say the American Medical Association , The American Nurses Organization , The International Society of Critical Care Nurses , and so onto maintain our certifications?

Let’s face it all professions have professional specific organizations whose goal is to achieve accountability, improve skills, set standards of practice and ethics to maintain a soluble and thriving profession for their members and this in turn ensures that the services are rendered by their members in an ethical and compassionate manner.   In turn this improves and  enhances the health, the living conditions, the essential elements such as water and food resources that is offered and given by the professional who serves them .  This strengthens the people who receive the services and also enhances and improves the skills of the professional who serves them. It is a win win situation for both of them.  

Now through certification everytime I recertify  I find I learn something new .   I have taken my awareness and understanding to another higher level.  If I did not do this I would become more motivated by my own selfish or jaded consciousness.  I lose that connection with my tribe of people .  It’s similar to the statement ”  When we pray together we stay together”  or as Christ stated ” For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.”  Deuteronomy 19:20  

Do you not want someone to serve you who maintains their license to practice medicine?  Would you choose to go to a doctor who did not renew their license to practice medicine?  This principle should be applied to every part of our life  .  How many times have you heard of someone who chose to have home repairs given by someone who is not licensed?  Then within about a year or maybe several months down the road they discover that something doesn’t work correctly or tile begin to fall off a counter or the plumbing or electricity was done properly and now a pipe burst or a vent is working backwards ?  

Now as a licensed and registered nurse I find that for me I maintain my accountability to myself, my profession, and my community and the people that I serve. But what motivated me to seek a spiritual understanding and apply it to the healing profession?   It actually occurred because I myself from a personal and spiritual level felt like I was underwater.  Things weren’t working out well for me other than my profession.  My relationships with family, friends and significant other were falling apart.  What was going on?  I did the only thing I knew and prayed and prayed to receive guidance and an understanding of what was I doing with my life and why so much internal and external suffering ?

I received guidance to seek an answer and searched for a practitioner in the spiritual realm.  I went to a Shaman who practiced Mayan Shamanism.  This Shaman and I wound up actually disagreeing on the principle of healing and miracles.  Everytime I created and was the vessel that catapulted someone’s healing and not dying I was changing the karmic wheel and therefore suffering on his / her behalf.   Really I disagreed and cited that Christ always performed miracles and healed the sick that is not true.  He suffered and died for our sins so that we did not have to suffer.  We now had a portal of hope and joy open to us to achieve and perform whatever we chose that was for the highest and greatest good of all.

Shortly after this discourse I found a life activation practitioner and teacher in the Modern Mystery School and immediately agreed to have a life activation.   I understood I needed to return to receive the full protocol and I did.  I continued to study and receive healings.  I received the King Salomon healing sessions and this motivated and supported me through my trials and tribulations in life.  I continued to study and eventually about 10 years later went forward to eventually open my own light center.  It was a slow process for me as I had many things occurring at the same time.  I had a very serious job and responsibility to the institution I worked for and to the team of professionals I worked with . However the universe had other plans for me and I became so ill that I needed to abruptly stop working and focus on healing myself.  It took a period of over 3 years and I only had Mystery School practitioner perform healings on me.  I also began to eat more healthily .  The connection between body mind and soul and spirit was understood by me on another level of consciousness.  I began to understand if all are not on the same frequency and vibration and energetic level then a state of dis-ease occurs.  We begin to disconnect with the Source  and become ill.  It can be physical, mental or spiritual and eventually the more the disconnect then eventually we become so ill and die.  

I also learned that the healings of King Salomon as handed down through the sacred lineage work on all peoples 100% of the time.  You see King Salomon only saved and utilized the healings that worked on peoples of all cultures races and creeds 100% of the time.  Those that did not work were discarded and never used.

There are many ways of dying and however it begins we must recognize that in that time period of dis-connect we are essentially living in our own personal hell.  So once I cannot stand the heat I have to get myself back into the light and thrive.  Each of us has some type of struggle but it is how we deal and recognize it that leads to our achieving a new life a new approach to life and work and to our personal interpersonal relationships with our family and significant other.

If interested in receiving a life activation or other services from me feel free to reach out to me through phyllis@centerforhealingandempowerment.com or by phone 732-882-9676.  

 

Blog 21 No questions No Answers

Some of us feel as if we’re never heard and never recognized by people in life.  Have you ever seen that successful people seem to attract people to them.  They follow them everywhere.

They developed relationships with very successful people or with people who could promote them .  With that you develop a following that is how people who have intangible businesses achieve notoriety.  

Some have gained notoriety through writing  books ;  started out in a business in the area when there was no one doing what they do.  They  had clients that promoted and recommended people to them for their services.  They may teamed up with someone that had a successful business and contacts so that they could then glean customers from their email list .  They developed and nurtured that relationship and offered them services and with their continued support their clients were recommended by  them for their business.

Bottom line is without support from other people intangible businesses eventually fall apart.  The bulk of the business depends on client loyalty ,  sustainability and their ability and understanding to value and pay for your services .  They do not cheapen and ruin your reputation and compare you with others.

 You have to be cognizant on what the quality of the services you offer them and value yourself enough not to barter especially with new clients .  They can just be bartering because in truth they do not value your services and value more and have plans to buy a new car and go on a European vacation or gamble away thousands of dollars but hey for your services they cheapen and disrespect you.

Don’t get me wrong I do charity work for those in need but I have to draw the line.  I’ve learned this the hard way and been cheapened and frankly unappreciated by some.  But the bottom line is these are lessons so that I can offer and give quality service to clients and not devalue myself or my services.  Sometimes in turn the client needs to learn to respect what I offer and if they don’t then well honestly they quickly fall away.  If they cheapen my communication through nasty facebook comments or speak badly to a competitor in my field all I can do is unfriend and block them on facebook and state my case should the competitor mention it.  If they don’t respect what I say well then that’s on them and it’s time to get rid of toxic competitors .  

It’s all a learning curve but the point is you have to value yourself and your work and avoid bartering except with clients whom you’ve known for a period of time.  

You have to recognize toxic personal relationships with family and business acquaintances and set boundaries .  If this doesn’t work then you need to sever ties because listening to negative people and people that choose not to respect your choices in life is draining and you need positive and not negative reinforcement about your work and passion in life.

Therefore I challenge you to respect yourself hold true to your work ethic and values and end all toxic relationships.  Listen to motivational talks that have a positive spin and you will find yourself seizing the day ( carpe diem) in a very positive manner.

Surround yourself with positive people and successful and kind business acquaintances.  You will find you will be happier and more motivated to achieve your goals and establish a positive and abundant business and a happy and a successful life.

Blog 20 How do I Keep a Tidy Home?

The story goes like this  if you have a tidy and clean home then you are able to manifest and become more abundant in life.  The actual physical reason is this our brain needs order without it our thoughts and focus become blurred .  So we need to create and maintain order in our life for without it will go helter skelter and become confused and eventually stagnant and unproductive.

So How do you do this?  Well keep a checklist for each room in the house and assign one day out fo the week.

Keep only one or two things on countertops and dressers and bureaus.  

Do not store things on the floor .  That leaves you hiding things away and not paying  attention to them.

 As you check off your weekly daily chores a sense of accomplishment and completion will lead you to follow this routine everyday.  As you begin doing this in your life ;  you will find that your home is neat and tidy and now you can enjoy your living space and can invite others to your home.  Your life will begin again in your tidy home.