Do We Heal Our Clients?

This article in Psychology Today touched on the wounded healer.  All of us are wounded in some way whether we admit or not.  What brings one into the healing arts be it wholistic, medical or psychological comes from our desire to help another heal.  Sometimes from knowledge about why we are who we are and the fact we did the work and healed ourselves from woundedness or we believe in helping others we can heal them and then heal ourselves.

 

This is provided for your perusal and I don’t have the answers.  You have the answers within yourself on why you choose that profession and mission in life.

Read, think upon it and find your answers.

10 Tips For Healing Your Woundedness So You Can Help Others

  1. Identify the wound.  Ask yourself what wound you seek to heal by ministering to others.
  2. Liberate your patients. It’s not fair to depend on your patients to give you a sense of self-worth, identity, inherent value, or sense of accomplishment. If you need therapyspiritual counseling, or some other kind of guidance to help you address your personal issues, get help.
  3. Be mindful of how your woundedness can bleed into your patients. If they feel they must please you in order to help you heal your own wounds, they will be focused on YOU, rather than focusing on their own self-healing.
  4. Be aware of your power. When patients seek help, they are vulnerable and easy to influence. This can be a drug for those whose wounds revolve around feelings of powerlessness or lack of control.  DO NOT take advantage of your power.
  5. Own your shit and take responsibility for your own healing. Make a plan to deal with your issues. Check in with your Inner Pilot Light and ask yourself what you need in order to heal the primary wound that may have led you to enter a healing profession.
  6. Beware of projection.  Your patients are not your alcoholic mother, your abusive ex-husband, or your vicious boss.
  7. Don’t be afraid of loving your patients. I know some people get all nutso about transference and all that crap. But love is the most healing gift you can offer your patients – and yourself.
  8. Avoid being a control freak. WAY too many people enter the healing professions in order to feel a sense of control. (Think of the bossy, screaming surgeon in the OR, ordering around the scrub tech and the nurse.) If you have control issues, deal with them in other ways. Your job is not the place to heal those wounds.
  9. Be a grown up. If you have Mommy issues or childhood traumas you haven’t addressed, face your junk. But don’t become the wounded child you once were. Don’t act out.
  10. Practice radical acts of self-love. If you know you’re enough, just the way you are, if you treat yourself like the precious child you once were, if you give yourself a break, care for your body, forgive yourself for your failings, and otherwise love and adore yourself, you won’t need your patients to feed your ego, and you will free them to focus on their own healing. Plus, you will be much better suited to care for them and nurture their optimal health and wellness.

Nobody sets out to hurt, abuse, or take advantage of those under their care. But it’s easy to slide into dangerous behavior if we’re not aware of our behavior.

Are You A Wounded Healer?

Does this sound like you or someone you know? Are you a healer—or do you think your physician or other health care provider may have an unexplored wound they’re dealing with. Are you willing to heal your own wounds so you don’t inflict your woundedness upon others?

If you are a patient or a healer committed to changing the way medicine is delivered and recieved, become a Pink Medicine Revolutionary, and I’ll share other tips I’m learning along the way.

And please, tell us your stories and share your insights in the comments below.

Humbly addressing my own wounds,

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Lissa Rankin, MD: Founder of OwningPink.comPink Medicine Revolutionarymotivational speaker, and author of What’s Up Down There? Questions You’d Only Ask Your Gynecologist If She Was Your Best Friend and Encaustic Art: The Complete Guide To Creating Fine Art With Wax.

Getting to Know Thyself : Does it get easier with time?

We all go through tragedies, challenges, deceitfulness, betrayals, supportive family and friends and or lack of them.
They say when one door closes another one opens for us.

But what if those doors are not opening then we need to search deep within our souls and truthfully find the answers.

That is what my journey is about, even at this point in time, I am still fighting the negative within me. Sometimes it seems unsurmountable and that’s when I surrender and utilize the tools I’ve been handed down to pull myself up and move out of the shadows and into the Light.

We create our world, and all of our actions either support or destroy us.

Through the healings and teachings I know the answers, but can I let go and reach that pinnacle of enlightenment that I yearn for?

Come join us at the Center for Healing and Empowerment in Warren, NJ for classes, programs, and healings and meditations.

Your Journey Begins With You. You create the change within and without.

Why does the Modern Mystery School require recertifications to continue to be an energy healer and guide and teacher

The world is changing both physically and in vibrational frequencies.  The news is full of information regarding the changes in the weather, extinction of animal species, geographical changes in the earth’s typography.  The emergence of new islands, volcanoes and dormant volcanoes awakening and erupting and because of the earth and climate changes also provides evidence that with these changes we as humans are either evolving and moving into a higher frequency state of existence or some remain in the third dimension. 

Keeping this in mind we recognize that we need to adjust our healings, our teachings and methodologies regarding our interactions with our clients and with one another on this planet.  Hence the Modern Mystery School evolves and changes some of these techniques dependant on the frequency changes occurring on this planet.

Therefore retesting yearly how we perform the life activation and healings, teaching and guidehood on our clients is tantamount to providing them with the latest and most accurate methods that lead to their healings and evolution into higher states of consciousness and optimal health. 

I recently attended our recertification programs and out of about 340 healers only 15% needed to repeat and be reevaluated and tested on their energy and delivery of the life activations and healings at the highest level of frequency needed to assist our clients.

Yes recertification and testing is stressful but in the long run it is of optimum value as we leave the program and recertification with renewed confidence and skill in our delivery of the activations and healings.

Therefore I would recommend that if you are a healer in another modality or lineage you may choose to seek out our programs and may choose to want to pursue being a life activation practitioner.   

As the school has evolved and grown I have found that the international teachers and healers and the administration along with founder Gudni Gudnason, Ipississimus Hideto Nakagome and Dave Lanyon have compassion and caring and assist all in evolving and becoming the best healers, teachers and guides that they can be.  

May 25th 2019

Why Learn about the Tree of Life and the Universal Kabbalah

The Tree of Life represents every aspect of our being : spiritual, mental .physical and emotional.  Each sephirah represents a part of our body and its related organs.  It has an angel, a planet, a color. and an animal totem, that represents that sephiroth and the energies it exudes and creates.

The study of the Universal Kabbalah in the Modern Mystery School tradition is done through a series of ascensions in which the group enters and in the next several months will engage either in person or by zoom to report to his /her group what his or her life has been since climbing up the tree.

After the four ascensions up the tree then over the weekend they go on a spiritual retreat at a specific location and share meals room and board with the Kabbalah instructor and all the Kabbalah members.

Hold the knowledge passed onto to you and sacred and not to be shared with anyone outside of your Kabbalah study group.  Kabbalah is a search for the truth of our existence and how we came to be and our purpose in life. It tackles the questions Who AM I .?  Why am I here?  Why choose this family?  What is my purpose? What is my contract with God/ or whatever your belief system holds in the highest esteem. ( Buddha, Krishna, Brahma ).

The purpose is To Know Thyself so that whatever challenges we face in life or in the spiritual we can address , conquer, and move forward and never be stagnant.  Stagnation creates passitivity, laziness, depression, self pity, doubt and anger.  Kabbalah allows us to see our faults and correct them.  It provides us with a means to forgive ourselves and those around us.

Join us on this journey into the Universal Kabbalah.  Find your true self and know its vices and virtues.  Learn the Kabbalistic way of resolving issues.

Be at peace and Fiat Lux !!!!

Phyllis Francene ( Fran)

What is the Path of the Healer ?

The path of the healer is a systematized and organized path established by the MMS school and in accordance to the lineage of King Solomon.

These healing tools have been used for centuries and in ancient times were only accessible to the elite or those chosen by King Solomon or the Ipsyssimus of that region of the world.  The tools are those that work on all people despite their religious beliefs, color or creed and must be provided without judgement opinion dogma prejudices and race.

I have performed the healings :  Isis Healings,  Advanced Isis, and Ensofic Ray Reiki sessions, amega wand healings, chakra balancing, and so much more and have seen tremendous transformation with my clients.

I also offer meditation classes and stress rescue programs .  Sacred Geometry level 1-4 and Astral Travel and the 13 Races of Earth and Journeys of the Spirit which are prerequisite to Healers Academy I.

www.centerforhealingandempowerment.com

What Is Initiation and What Does Initiation Do and Enable a Client to Do ?

Initiation is a physical ceremony in which a guide through physical ceremony.  The guide Brings down the energies and the HOL and the client’s guides.  The archangelic kingdom and other dimensions are more easily accessed following initiation.

Initiation brings the client 10x more power.  It is like agroup of 10 people are prayer alongside of you.

Initiation enables the new initiate to have direct access to the Hierarchy of  Light .  The adept is able to summon, call upon and dismiss new and old stagnant energies.

Your family line 7 generations ( ancestors) behind you and 7 generations into the future.

Predispositions to disease are removed or improved upon .  I cannot say cured as I am not a licensed physician.

More clarity and focus occur and just looking at the world around you shifts for you.  The sky may appear indigo or another color.

Old patterns of behavior slowly leave your new light body.

These teachings from the empower Thyself have taught over 3000 years.

Your vibration is heightened and your tolerance for opinions prejudices judgement shifts .  These are being lessened so that when you step into service the person shifts > The family shift > the community shifts> the world shifts. 

The consciousness of the world could shift and that is why it is important to life activate and initiate everyone who comes to me for healings and teachings.

My recommendation is to go to youtube.com and see the  video put out by Jordan Bain re:  initiation and life activation and by Theresa Ibis Bullard on these topics.

Book your life activation and empower thyself by reaching out to me via my website www.centerforhealingandempowerment.com .   I am only a phone call away.  Please remember these cannot be taught or given on line.  They are secret keys of wisdom being handed down to you and sacred activations that can only be offered as one on one sessions .

Do not overthink or guess just book your session and I promise you that you will see changes over the course of one to three months and for the rest of your life should you develop a spiritual practice by following and utilizing the tools handed down to you by a certified MMS guide.

 

 

Why Are The Rules For Magicians Important

The Rules for Magicians is part of the Hermetic Teachings in the sacred lineage of King Solomon.  It’s importance lies in the fact that by nature man/woman our nature is to be laid back and we need rules to live by to allow us to strive and resist our carnal nature and achieve a higher state of vibration that allows us to move toward a higher state of being and wellness.

As we move up through the developmental stages in life it becomes more difficult for those who have never lived independently and were always controlled by society or in the work setting.  Therefore for them to resist and achieve self regulation and take ownership of their lives it is with education, passion and resistance to their carnal desires that enables them to live independently and become entrepreneurs in a field of business that they love an are passionate in.

The studies learned at the Modern Mystery School enabled me to achieve and let go of attachments that restrict me in leading an independent live free of the restrictions placed by society through earlier programming and education.  Our society still does not allow its youth to truly think on their own and operating away from the restrictions that the matrix confines us. 

Through the life activation and initiation into the lineage of King Solomon the chains of oppression and attachments that restrict us and lead to us to operate as sheeple is broken.

My advice to readers is to explore and let go of fears and attachments and try and discover these activations and take the Empower Thyself 2 day program.  You will never regret it .  Follow the advice given to you by your guide and teacher as their mission in live and purpose is to serve all free of attachments, opinions, judgements and prejudices.  Your guide has only your best interest in mind.  I am stating this based on years of being a part of this school and learning slowly its true value that its healings, teachings and initiations have personally changed my life in a positive manner.

Let go of fear and don’t listen to others as they operate in fear and resistance.  Haven’t you ever experienced that if you mentioned to a friend you were trying something new or embarking on a new invention or course of life they usually negate it .  They are not positive as then that would mean for them ” Wake up and do something new experience life .  Live it .  Let go of your fears.”

Seek a guide and teacher in the Modern Mystery School explore it and experience it fully by utilizing the tools handed down to you.  You won’t regret it.  As Paolo Coehlo stated ” didn’t you experience the pyramids and were they not beautiful ?”  Even though his hero returned to the original site and found his hidden treasure nestled beneath a huge tree.

My only purpose is to guide all who enter my center and allow them to blossom and grow to the extent that they can and decide to do.

Make your life an exclamation and not an explanation !!!!

Namaste

Phyllis Francene ( Fran )

CEO Center for Healing and Empowerment

172 Wahington Valley Road Suite#3 ,  Warren, nj 07059

732-882-9676

Why Did I Become a Healer

  I am writing this as I’ve often been questioned about the path of healing I chose.  Most people would ask me ”  Why did you leave nursing ?  ”  and frankly it was not intentional but rather a set of circumstances that led onto this path.  Throughout my nursing career I firmly believed in miracles and saw through the intercession of our Lady of Lourdes a lot of miracles.  Patients that were given a mortality rate of 85%  eventually a year later either woke up from a coma,  survived pelvic injuries , brain injuries ,  cancers for which they said had no cure and even a patient with spinal necrotizing  fascitis survive .  His surgeon was so grateful for this miracle that he said his faith in God was restored and began taking his family and wife to Sunday Mass and services.

I then went through a series of negative relationships which culminated in an attempt on my life.  Following this harrowing experience I found myself praying to God and asking for his assistance.   This led me on the path and in seeking answers I found the life activation the most profound of healings that I ever experienced.  It was like a light switch was turned on and I found myself more creative, able to parallel park with ease and so many other phenomal things began to emerge.  I still had many challenges as I sustained some spinal trauma and had severe back pain and periods of not being able to walk for a week almost every month for a year. It subsided but I still had to deal with the effects of the emotional and physical trauma I had experienced.  Therefore my progression was slow but steady.  When I was told that I needed to have breast surgery my guidance was not to accept this recommendation and I pursued the energy healing sessions.  All the healings were received from a certified MMS healer and in about 3 years I was in full recovery.

As I had a gap in time from my nursing career I found it difficult to find work .  I tried home care but that is not my forte.  In the interim I sought to have a space dedicated to my healing and teaching path.

Now you may ask me Well you chose that path but are you successful?

Now you must realize that success is subjective.  I have flaws and my marketing and money skills need improvement.  Success lies in the fact that I challenged myself to do what many would consider impossible and that was to open a center .  Success lies in the fact that I am comfortable speaking to people and   communicating with them. I am able to talk in front of a group of about 40 people which is something I had never done in the past. So just like Mr Paolo Cuelo in his book the  “Alchemist” .   Santiago The main character in this book arrives at the church and falls asleep contemplating the strange way God has guided him to the treasure. He wakes up digging and laughing about how God left gold at the monastery through the alchemist to ease his journey back. A voice in the wind says God wanted him to see the pyramids’ beauty. ”  Therefore this takes time and patience .  Sometimes the more baggage we have the more difficult  it is to move forward.  Along the way I claimed them as being me I was the strange one,  the stupid one, the victim who deserved any and every beating she got.  So when the Modern Mystery School teaches us through the Kabbalah program to let go of our ego I held on tightly to it.  I perceived myself as being a warrior but with a caveat must suffer.  If I let go of this perception what do I have left ? 

So slowly as an onion being peeled it seems as if it is endless .  That’s what The Mystery School does they enable you at your own path to find answers to the following questions:  Who am I?   What am I ?Where did I come from ?  Where are am I going ?  

So each day becomes the day to improve and hone down on my skills and move with the flow.  Success is achieved when I recognize my faults and weaknesses To have a gratitude journal to thank God and for my being alive. 

This is my path and my purpose it to empower people to recognize their divinity, their connection to God ,  the universe and the cosmos.  To recognize that they are not defined by age, sex, occupation, religion or sect.  They are individual expressions of God .  They are spiritual being having a physical experience and that were never born and never can die.

These concepts are difficult to divulge unless realizes in essence that in every religious teaching our major existence or goal is to reach heaven and that occurs after death.
In essence all religions recognize the existence of a soul and an afterlife .  Hence there’s truth to the concept that our bodies are merely like suits that are worn and discarded at death .  The scientists have actually determined that the soul weighs 1/2 oz.  They did this by weighing a hospital patient before and death. 

Therefore our very existence is merely to learn lessons and do good and produce beauty and joy for ourselves and others .  This creates harmony and peace and joy within all the people that surround our world and spreads throughout the families and communities and throughout the world.  World peace can be achieved if enough people spread this peace joy harmony and beauty to those that are living around them and their community.

In essence through the teachings of the Modern Mystery School I have been able to incorporate and carry out these teachings to improve the quality of my life and for those around me.  I’ve seen the positive things that occurred after my life activation and then initiation.  With the tools provided and the sound guidance of the teachers and guides I found the answers to my reasons for existence, my purpose, my path and discovering whom I really am.  This empowered me to move forward and do and achieve things that I would have never done had I not been a part of this spiritual community.

I ask the reader to have an open mind and absorb what I have passed onto them and instead of judging to meditate on what has been suggested here and then decide whether this is the correct path for them to follow.

In light and love I remain Phyllis Francene CEO of Center for Healing and Empowerment .

Namaste 

 

 

What Makes a Good Motivational Speaker ?

A good motivational speaker must believe in him or herself.  They must be passionate about helping people and treat everyone equally without judgement, attachment or opinions.

 

People feel their energy and within about 15 sec will either trust and believe the speaker or distrust them.

The speaker must engage and form a relationship with their audience.   From their speech,  movement, and veracity they will engage the audience and create a sensation and feeling of comraderie, and trust .  Once this occurs massive changes can occur.

Linda Nichols and Tony Robbins are prime examples of strong motivational speakers.  They have changed the lives of thousands of people for the better.  People’s lives have been transformed.  They have happy successful lives and created a healthy romantic relationship leading to marriage and followed by children.  

What is Love ? September 22, 2018

Love is kind Love is Joy Love is Patience Love is Forgiveness

Our hearts hold within them neural sensors that actually guide us in reaching understanding, and making decisions that uplift us and those around us.  So the saying ”  Follow your Heart”   is accurate and has been proven in science.  

Love without passion cannot ignite us to continue on our mission .  When we have passion in life everything appears more expansive and the concept  of endless possibilities becomes a reality.  We are able to move with the flow and like water we rise and fall to the cadence of the situation and redirect and  away from obstacles and create the ocean or sea of endless possibilities.  We flow like water .

So whenever beset by a circumstance or situation or relationship that seems hopeless or utterly impossible to resolve I encourage to step back and breathe slowly and go into a quiet still place and meditate and ask your heart for the answers .  Be patient it may come to you immediately or slowly throughout the day there will messages received either through signs , billboards, or someone may actually strike a conversation with you and has led you to explore and you’ve found your answers.

Also treat yourself as royal and good an full of beauty and in living your life this way you can hear, feel, and with certainty listen to your heart.  The answers are only a heartbeat away.